We went back to Papworth on Saturday, not for me this time, but to visit a few friends who are in hospital there.
First stop was to Mallard Ward to see Anne, who was 9 days post heart and lung transplant and making a very good recovery. She was happy, smiling and and still in shock that her transplant had actually happened. It was really good to see her and as well as laughing and smiling, we shed a tear or two! She is still recovering well and has been for a few walks outside, to the gym and is looking forward to going out for a couple of hours for Sunday lunch this weekend. So onwards and upwards Anne, hopefully she may get home sooner than she ever expected.
Next stop was Princess Ward for a quick hello and chat with Sita, who was in hospital for a procedure to sort out an ongoing problem she has been struggling with since her transplant. Sita is one of the bravest people I have ever met, when I think of all she has gone through, first with her PH, then with her heart and double lung transplants and now she is having to cope with a very difficult recovery. We are wishing her well and hoping that she can make a few steps forward to going home.
We then saw that Bernice was on Princess ward too. Bernice was on the ITV News 'From the Heart' campaign with us and we recently met her in the Transplant Continuing Care Unit. She is waiting for a heart and double lung transplant too, so we popped in to say hello to her. Again, we are wishing her well and hope she gets home soon or better still gets her call for her heart and double lung transplant.
By 2 am we were dozing off back to sleep then we were awakened by my pump beeping and when I sat up I felt really unwell. In all the excitement I had drifted off to sleep with my line twisted and my drugs were not getting through. Eventually we sorted it and after I was sure I felt all right again and the drug was getting through we went back off to sleep. At 5am we got another text from Stacie to say it had ended up being a false alarm as the lungs were not in good enough condition to use for transplant.
We were so disappointed for Stacie, but she very admirably took it all in her stride. We are prepared by the Transplant Team for false alarms, for a variety of reasons, so we are very aware it may happen, but still when it does, I think it must be very difficult. Stacie was pleased though, as they told her the heart was in good condition and another life was saved that night instead. For us, well it's really encouraging to know that donor organs do become available and that those phone calls we wait so eagerly for do happen. Hopefully, for Stacie, it will be soon now she has had a practice run.
When we were in the ITV campaign 'From the Heart', Rob and I came into contact with many families who's lives had been affected by organ donation and transplant. One very special person was Sally, who featured on Granada Reports during 'From the Heart' week. Sally is a mother who found herself in that dreadful position of being asked if she would say 'yes' to donating her young son, Toby's organs after he had a tragic accident whilst they were on holiday. Sally always says that the decision was an easy one, because Toby had told her that was what he would like to do should anything ever happen to him.
Since Toby's accident Sally and her husband Graham have campaigned relentlessly to raise awareness about organ donation and have also run events to raise awareness of Cystic Fibrosis, one of Toby's friends had CF and it was a cause dear to him. Toby's story is a very inspiring one for me: it helps me know that when I may get my heart and lungs, that is what the donor and their family wanted; it helps me to know that there are generous families out there who are willing to give the most precious gift of all, despite the despair they are going through. I hope Toby's mum and dad can see that not only has Toby saved several lives, but he has also given a lot of people like me and our families some inspiration and encouragement too.
You can follow Sally's very moving story on her blog and take a look at the website dedicated to Toby, by clicking on the links below: